The holiday season will be here in a matter of days. And with it will come the hope that this one will betruly magical.
However, many of us quickly get bogged down in busyness, stress and old patterns. Here are 10 ways to turn that dynamic around and create a magical holiday.
1. Give Yourself a Break
Perfection-even perfect happiness-just isn’t possible. Let your best be good enough. Make a budget for both your time and your money-andstick to it. It really is the thought that counts.
2. Make Conscious Decisions
Get clear about what you really want to do over the holidays before compromising with others. If you don’t have a clear plan and clear intentions, you might find yourself getting swept along by others’ desires. Even if you compromise later, get clear first.
3. Shorten Your To-Do List
What do the holidays mean to you? For many, it’s about family and friends and spirituality. If an item doesn’t add to your holiday spirit, scratch it off.
4. Say No When You Want To
It’s very liberating. Try it and see. It sounds simple, but too often obligation trumps desire. When faced with options, choose the one that would make you happier.
5. Limit Required Activities
If you can’t avoid certain events, limit the time you’re there.
6. Take Good Care of Yourself
Keep stress at bay: eat healthfully, exercise, drink lots of water, and breathe deeply. Schedule time for relaxation and fun.
7. Start Early
To avoid a last-minute frenzy that can bust your budget, start shopping or making presents now.
8. Ask For Help
Forget being a martyr! The burden of preparations shouldn’t fall on just one person. The more specific you are in your request, the more successful you’ll be.
9. Establish New Traditions
If you have experienced a major life-changing event, such as a death or divorce, consider doing something you’ve never done before over the holidays, such as travel to another country or take a cruise.
10. Get Support
If a glorious holiday season feels completely out of reach, you may experience the holiday blues. Many people do. Don’t beat yourself up for feeling that way. Reach out for the support you need.
Dare the Extraordinary!
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